Nigeria's Matchmaker

A real person finds
someone for you.
You just show up for the date.

Here's how it works: you tell us the kind of person you'd like to meet. A real matchmaker — an actual human, not an app or a robot — goes and finds someone who fits, then makes contact and connects you both, so you never have to guess if they will reply you or not. We can plan the date for you, or if you'd rather handle the details yourselves once you're connected, that's fine too. It works anywhere in Nigeria — Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt and every other city.

Starts at ₦19,999  ·  Pay once  ·  No subscription

Pick a package —
pay once, no subscription.

Every package below is a one-time payment. No monthly bill. No hidden charges. Starts at ₦19,999.

Starter
A simple way to try it out
19,999

One-time · active for 7 days


  • 1 matchmaker assigned to you
  • Up to 4 people considered for you
  • Your matchmaker makes contact for you
  • 1 date fully arranged
  • Updates as things happen
  • A short summary when it's done
  • You can say no to 2 people before choosing
  • Faster matchmaker assignment
  • Longer 14-day window
  • Up to 3 dates arranged
Sign Up Free To Start

Active for 7 days from when you fill in your details. Matchmaker assigned within 24 hours.

Premium
The full, hands-on experience
49,999

One-time · active for 7 days


  • A senior matchmaker, personally assigned
  • Up to 15 people considered for you
  • Your matchmaker makes contact for you
  • Up to 4 dates fully arranged
  • Updates as things happen
  • A detailed summary when it's done
  • You can say no to 5 people before choosing
  • Faster matchmaker assignment
  • Longer 21-day window
  • Phone support
Sign Up Free To Start

Best if you want the most hands-on help. Senior matchmaker assigned within 24 hours.

Tired of dating apps?
Try a real matchmaker instead.

Dating apps can feel like a lot of work — swiping, waiting for replies, getting ghosted. A matchmaker is different. A real person takes the time to understand what you're looking for, finds someone who actually fits, and makes contact for you. Once you're connected, we can plan the date, or leave it to you — whichever you'd rather.

Someone Who Fits You

Your matchmaker looks for someone whose personality and goals actually match yours — not just someone who looks good in a photo.

No Guesswork

You don't have to figure out who's a good fit on your own. That's your matchmaker's job.

You're In Control

Once your matchmaker connects you, you decide what happens next — let us plan the date, or handle it yourselves.

People Who Are Serious

This service is for people who actually want a relationship, not just to chat.

Ready To Settle Down

If marriage is the goal, tell your matchmaker — they'll look for someone who wants that too.

It Can Happen Fast

Some clients meet the right person within days. Others take longer. Your matchmaker keeps looking until your session ends.

Live abroad? We can still find
someone for you back home.

If you're a Nigerian living in the UK, USA, Canada, Ireland, Australia, South Africa, Dubai, Singapore or anywhere else abroad, and you want to meet someone back in Nigeria — our matchmakers can help. We've arranged first dates for people living abroad with matches in Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt and beyond. Where you live isn't a problem.

🇬🇧 United Kingdom 🇺🇸 United States 🇨🇦 Canada 🇮🇪 Ireland 🇦🇺 Australia 🇿🇦 South Africa 🇦🇪 Dubai 🇸🇬 Singapore

Don't see your country? Contact us — we can still help →

We work in your city too —
everywhere in Nigeria

Our matchmakers work in Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, and every other city in Nigeria's 36 states. Everything happens online, so it doesn't matter which part of Nigeria you're in.

📍 Lagos 📍 Abuja (FCT) 📍 Port Harcourt 📍 Ibadan 📍 Enugu 📍 Kano 📍 Calabar 📍 Warri 📍 Benin City 📍 Owerri 📍 Uyo 📍 Ilorin 📍 Kaduna 📍 Jos 📍 Aba 📍 Abeokuta 📍 Asaba 📍 Onitsha 📍 Akure 📍 Makurdi 📍 Maiduguri 📍 Sokoto 📍 Yola 📍 Bauchi 📍 Lafia 📍 Lokoja 📍 Ado-Ekiti 📍 Osogbo 📍 Ile-Ife 📍 Nnewi

Don't see your city listed? Contact us — if you're anywhere in Nigeria, we can still help.

Everything you need
to know before you start

A matchmaker is a real person whose job is to find you someone to date. On NaijaCupid, after you pay, a human matchmaker looks at what you told us, searches through our members, reaches out to someone who fits, and sets up your first date. You don't have to swipe, chat first, or guess if they'll reply — your matchmaker handles all of that.

No. It works the same way everywhere — Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, or anywhere else in Nigeria's 36 states. Everything happens online, so your matchmaker can find someone for you no matter where you live.

On a dating app, you do all the work — swiping, messaging, guessing. Here, a real human matchmaker does that work for you. They find the right person and make contact on your behalf. It's slower to browse, but it's meant to feel less like a chore.

There are three packages: ₦19,999 (Starter — 1 date, 7 days), ₦34,999 (Standard — up to 2 dates, 7 days), and ₦49,999 (Premium — up to 4 dates, 7 days with phone support). You pay once — there's no monthly bill.

Yes. Just tell your matchmaker what you're looking for — whether that's dating, a serious relationship, or marriage — and they'll search for people with the same goal.

Yes. If you'd like your matchmaker to look specifically for a Christian or Muslim partner who shares your faith, just say so when you fill in your details.

Yes. Many of our clients live abroad — in the UK, USA, Canada, and other countries — and want to meet someone back in Nigeria. Your matchmaker works the same way no matter where you live.

No. We've helped clients of many different ages, including people over 50, find a serious partner.

A real human works on your case personally — searching, reaching out, following up, and arranging your date. It isn't an algorithm guessing who you might like.

Whichever you prefer. If you'd like your matchmaker to handle the planning — time, place, everything — they will. If you'd rather just be connected and arrange the date yourselves, that's fine too. Either way, the matchmaker's job is to make the introduction; from there, you decide.

Yes — this happens a lot, and it's exactly what the matchmaker service is for. Tell us the username of the person you have in mind when you sign up, and your matchmaker will reach out to them directly and try to connect you. A message from a matchmaker sometimes gets a reply where a direct message didn't.

Yes — contact our support team within 48 hours of paying, and you can upgrade by paying just the difference in price.

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